10 SIGNS That Show YOU are a CLASSY LADY
Hello my Elegant ladies!
My penultimate video discussed 10 indicators of classless behaviour. In this video, I talk about 10 signs that show you are a classy woman of elegance.
Please stay with me as I point out some very important issues that will spear you in the trajectory of elegance.
Hey darling! Much love.Being Elegant is not only by dressing but by manners also.
Good morning
This was stated in the video 3:15 she was specific. Happy vibes ๐๐๐๐ด๐บ๐ธ
But she include everything
She said it over and over how to speak and all that listen again
Manners – exactly what she’s promoting
“You are addressed the way you dress.” – definitely a quote to remember โค๏ธ
Yes. however, we should not address someone poorly just because they are not properly dressed. Elegant ladies respect everyone no matter the attire.
Letโs just remember people who donโt dress properly for an occasion is lacking knowledge. We should address that with empathy or as an opportunity to educate with purest intentions and not as if the person is less deserving of human respect.
That quote stood out to me as well
@@alungakabuasa Beautifully said!!
So true
@@alungakabuasa youโre right
This is emotional intelligence at its finest. Gentlemen, we must secure and protect such ladies at all costs. When she speaks, we cannot tell the color of her skin from the majestic vowels within her wit. She is a phenomenal woman. The priceless kind I predict
Well done thats class for you.
You sir are an absolute kingโค
@@samanthaemm3854 It takes royalty to perceive royalty, princess.
Mmmmmm I know many elegant women who are provided for by men.elegant is a personality translated into physical appearance.
I am becoming more elegant, mysterious, and learning every day.
This video is almost 17 min but better than hours of the most lectures. Thank you โค
Agree!! I enjoy watching it too.
Absolutely!
1. Dress well
2. Speak articulately, kindly and gracefully to others. No room for negativity
3. She is independent( Does not financially rely on your man, you deliberately have to take care of your bills)
4. You know when to talk and when to stay silent
5. You are kind and considerate of others’ feeling
6.Don’t idle away from your time(Make productive use of your time and follow through your goals)
7. High self-esteem ( You know your worth, you don’t let your past, other people’s view or opinion change you). Stay humble while being confident. Strive to be better each day.
8. She possess a self control
9. Your knowledge of current affairs (She follows global and local affairs around her)
10. You avoid emotional outbursts both online and offline
Thanks
Does not class have to be within oneself?
Tx you for taking time to post this. Greatly appreciated
Thannk YoUu & May God Richly Bless YoUu & your entire family!
I post lists from these posts as well!!!
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@@bonitabonita3431 ๐๐ Amen, I receive it. May God abundant blessings be on you as well as your family too๐
This is just so inspiring! I feel like practicing my Christian values is what an elegant woman is!
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I feel the same. Itโs stunning how Godโs way of suggested living shows up in women as elegance. We win on both sides.
I agree ๐
This is so true
Yes, it is. Godโs standards should always be the first level of standards. However, some aspects of elegance donโt necessarily come as mandatory requirements for being a Christian, for example, table manners. So, see elegance as an extra level of standard.
I agree. I’ve seen elegant women in church. Some have their own careers, some are retired, and some are home taking care of their household. All of these women have wisdom and elegance. They’re also humble.
I think also another one is to be discreet, not tell everyone your personal business or about your life. Just my thoughts.
Thank you for your videos!!!
@@reneeparsons Good idea!! Journal!
Great advice, only wish I’d heard it growing up!
I found your channel in 2021 and completely reformed myself. My Nana sent me one of your videos about three months ago, completely unaware that I found your channel, and now we have a commonality ๐ She really adores you and your brand. She was so pleased with me the last time she saw me and saw my new found femininity and elegance through my new wardrobe and mannerisms. I took a lot of inspiration from you and went and bought cashmereโs, wool, and silks. Now, every time I leave my house Iโm dressed to perfection and I get so many compliments and respect. I donโt even wear trousers anymore, only skirts and dresses, and I even started wearing modest head coverings. The attention I get is overwhelmingly positive from women as well as men (yes they do still give compliments and open doors for women of elegance) and I feel so confident now dressing in a manner that is appropriate for business, casual, church, or brunch at all times. I now have a positive self image by looking presentable and elegant and feel even prettier ๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐ Thank you ๐๐ฝ
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing my Elegant lady! I wish you the very best life has to offerโค
Well done !
Thank you really appreciate your video
“The rains in Spain are mainly in the plains…” Audrey Hepburn as Eliza Doolittle in My Fair Lady
It is true that if you dress & behave in the way you want to be treated, it will make a noticeable difference.
I came from a poor family, yet my mother love to sew and made me the most beautiful clothes as a child and teenager, with very little money she took me to the ballet, to learn to ballroom dance, to go to art galleries and so on. My favourite thing she said to me is โfirst impressions count you can dress with style without much money and look well put together, have manners and kindnessโ everyone used to think we lived in a beautiful home, little did they know we were poor. I have continued to care about my grooming and presentation all my life, I also learned about etiquette which helped me refine myself. My mum had wise words. Itโs easy to look good on a budget, so there are no excuses. Being a kind person with manners is free too
Thank you for such a great video, it reminded me of my wonderful wise mother.
Yes all you said is true. I remember I was homeless at one point, couch to couch; some nights in my car and people thought I was just living my best life because the way I presented myself but nope majority of those days I was sad and hungry lol.
@@erikathomas5801 that is amazing resilience to be able to be able to hold your head high and be your true elegant self whilst going through these times. We need to have that inner self respect to stay positive when deep down we are doing the best to thrive during tough times. I can relate to what you have been through. Thanks for sharing.
Your mother is a wonderful woman
@@professordumbledore369 thank you to all the wonderful mothers out there xxxxx
Your mom was a wonderful mother. My mom passed when I was seven. I had to teach myself everything I know. As you said the impressions matter a lot. I learned to look good with little money or nothing that I have. I taught myself to dress very well using cheap clothes. My classmates in boarding school used to think I was a selfish girl who didnโt want to share with them. They used to think I come from a rich family based on my appearance.
All good points. I strive daily to be a woman of elegance. I am financially dependent on my husband though, it brings him great joy to make the living. I keep our home spotless and do many little things for him that he enjoys. It’s old fashioned and we love it.
Oh well, no elegance for you then! ๐๐๐๐
I m exactly the same. A house wife and a full time mom๐
I’m a teacher and my husband is a physician. I am proud to be a kept wife! My husband loves it as do I.
@@monica1047 thatโs wonderful.
@@cherkhawa I love it. I live in a small town in Manitoba and there are lots of stay at home moms here.
I love this! I wish that etiquette and manners could be taught in schools as a requirement (not for a one day or week) along with real life skills such as personal hygiene, financial skills, gardening, taking care of small animals, volunteering in the community, simple cooking skills, and safety in various situations. Yes people may say these are things the parents or caregivers should instill in children, yeah but many donโt. I believe these are the most important skills to build strength and character in becoming a young adult and will carry a young person farther than what is currently taught in schools curriculum.
So true, and sometimes parents do not instill because they do not have such knowledge to impart.
YES. School curriculums need to be updated for the dealing with the real, modern world. A lot of parents aren’t teaching their kids how to.
Still ready to learn but from where ?
I agree with you 100%. So many important and needed knowledge that can be prioritised in teaching little children at school than teaching them about sex and other vulgarities.
I agree with you 100%!! These things seem to be currently lacking in society for whatever reason. They are essential skills and character attributes that would greatly improve peopleโs lives and society as a whole if they were taught in school, as unfortunately they are not always taught at home.
I was about 40 years old when a dear friend said to me” never forget you are a lady her words were more precious to me than gold”.
Vivian! Persevere in this work! Actually – publish these notes! As a black man I cannot contain my delight in hearing such refreshing teaching and example. Every blessing!!! Shine on!!!๐
I love being feminine. I keep things together…for myself as well as for my husband. Thank you for your helpful videos.
I am 76 years old. in a correct way, I wish I was 19 years old now. Your videos are eminently educational not just for the woman who wishes to have class and elegance but also for any real gentleman who wishes to be in the company of her grace. Thank you for the time and attention you share with so many who care about and respect your service.
Beautiful! Thank you lovely lady! I agree with everything you say! I have tried to live my life in a lady like manner as my dear mother instructed me. I am sorry to say that some women are not as fortunate, or didn’t have anyone to show them or don’t care nowadays. However you my dear are beautiful and refreshing and a joy to listen to. Many Thanks!
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Thanks for sharing this information .I would share this with my daughter too.
I am 19 years old,and your comment made me appreciate my passion to learn and be educated at a young age.
Thank you for creating such an interesting channel. Ever since I was in grade school I remember checking out almost every book dealing with etiquette. These books explained in great detail everything from the proper way to walk downstairs to how to set a dining table.
Finding your channel was like finding a dear friend with whom I lost contact.
I’m looking forward to enjoying future videos and I’ve already subscribed and hit the like and notification bell.
With warm regards.
Hello, I am 72 years old but still want to improve myself. And you are just what I need to hear and see!
So Am I
Bravo dear Lady. I entirely agree with you.
I am 76 years old and I simply love you and what you say.
Thank you with all my heart.
INSPIRED! I had a successful 20+ years in tech sales & management. My grandson was born unhealthy, and his mother passed away. Iโve spent over 4 years @ home caring for children. In the next twelve months I will return to career mode. I am 50 feeling as though Iโve lost many social skills as an adult. Thank you for your inspiration and reminders in being a lady. Iโm gearing up!
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You are truly a woman of elegance and class. I just found this video today at the age of 70! As a retired educator, I can only imagine what a beautiful world we would have if your videos were a full on course that could be taught to girls in schools all over the word. Kids today need to feel their self worth, and to enforce it with good manners and concern form others. Thank you for providing these lessons. You exude poise and grace.