8 Things you should NEVER say to a Man!
It's been said that women thrive on love and men thrive on respect. Are you single, hopeful for marriage or even already married? Do you find that your speech towards your significant other could do with some fine tuning? Are you nagging, scathing and argumentative? Well, if we are on the road to becoming the best version of ourselves we could start by ensuring that our words are always upbuilding, kind and encouraging.
In this video, I go through 8 things that you should avoid saying to a man- especially a significant other. Things that could ruin a precious relationship you've worked so hard to build.
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I think it can be said that if you have to say any of these statements to your partner then you need to re evaluate your relationship and he may not be the one for you.
Very well said!
You need to re evaluate yourself first for having a loose tongue… You don’t have to say any of those things to your partner whether you feel he’s the one or not… Simply walk away
Exactly. The RIGHT man deserves your best ❤
You may not be.the one for him either.
@@timeeak4599 still d same tin🤷♀️
What beautiful message..how many marriages might have been saved if words were chosen carefully..ty
❤ Amen.
It’s always words.
Wonderful message
exactly 💯
I totally agree. Words carry weight!
I never interrupt my husband or over talk him. When he is finished talking, if I don’t agree, I will say I see it slightly differently. If he’s in a ” mood,” I never press the issue. I’m very patient and wait for the right time to introduce my idea or point of view. I’ve never failed with this approach.
With men,…it’s all about strategy! The key is to never press!
❤ thank you for sharing.
This is a good strategy thank you for sharing ❤
This is good 👍 I really want to learn this
I’m proud of you
If a man is rude or disrespectful towards you. Quietly walk away. Don’t downgrade yourself to his level. We are above that. We certainly do not need to accept any negative behavior. We just don’t need to become the exact thing we dislike. We have the ability to walk away with our dignity in tact. (This 100% does not apply to women in abusive or controlling relationships. You ladies deserve no judgment, just prayers for a safe outcome)
My thoughts exactly.
Thank you for remembering those in an abusive and controlling relationship. Nothing good or any good gesture is recognized. If a man is abusive he is abusive no amount of putting yourself down will change the way he treats you. It’s mental issue.
Walking away aint always possible . I’ve been attacked for walking away. Defend your self at all cost. Standing up for yourself isn’t degrading yourself
Phew!!! 🙌🏾
@@ilovepdub Oh absolutely, I apologize if I did not make that clear. That is what I meant when I wrote that this advice 100% does not apply to any form of abusive relationship. I completely agree that in those horrific situations you need to do whatever it takes to stay safe. I truly apologize if my wording was unclear. I sometimes have trouble articulating in writing what I am trying to convey. Again, prayers to all who find themselves in any unhealthy situations and/or relationships.
My ex husband and I had a very tumultuous marriage. He was quite smart in what he was doing each day to destroy the sweetness I had, because he knew the marriage was destined for divorce. He disrespected me so much that I had to develop a character to deal with it. But he wanted to destroy me for all future relationships and program a call and response that would always lead to destruction. I realized this and began to unprogram myself and it took 5 years. I now do not engage with men like that, only gentlemen, and I never have to raise my voice. I just have to be sweet even when they may be annoyed and they melt. It really is just a better way for me to live.
Interesting
my first marriage was abusive in many ways, too. i remarried after many years, and was treated with love and respect. i am now widowed, but feel thankful that i married for the second time.
He was a narcis
Same, my Ex husband was a Narcissist, Sociopath & with a dash of Psychopath..
Some people are sent from the 👹 to destroy us.
And then there are some who are simply Heaven sent to help, bless, guide & love us…
That’s why praying, having Godly discernment & wisdom is very valuable 🙏🏼🥹
Only gentlemen is the key.
I went through a similar situation when I was very young and it continues to this day. I am now 77 and a widow from my second husband.
So I have been single for about 8 months and my ex hurt me alot. I did love him. But up until now I am genuinely sorry for some of the things I said to him. We weren’t good for eachother and that’s still hard for me to grasp. I’m just going to try my best to never make the same mistakes again. Lord help me as I try.
Same here…. 🤐
I’m in this situation too 🥺😭💔
Me too 😢😢😢
I’ve missed you. I am very lucky my husband and I respect each other . I’ve been married for 15 years staying strong. Hes so kind to me. We never say hurtful words to each other. I am truly blessed.
❤❤❤
As a divorced man who has been through the mill, I say you are mostly right. Unfortunately most high profile /alpha /high value women I are unable to leave their work time weapons at the door when they get home . Many such women feel the need to fight to get their opinions across. As much as men like to be right (due to our logical way of thinking) we do appreciate a woman who can tactically prove us wrong. A smart and supportive woman is a huge asset. We will do anything to keep her. PS: keep up the good work
No matter what these men do, you can’t say anything about it or they get offended 🙄. My ex did so much nonsense and everything I said to him about it was an an issue. I’ve never used any of these statements and he was still feeling disrespected. I had to end things.
Same
Exactly and it is so annoying. I understand accountability, but I flat out refuse to excuses a man’s disrespect while someone tells me to level up for the sake of femininity. I do agree that walking away is the best strategy altogether. One sided accountability is beyond gross in this world.
You did great by leaving. No one has to stick around to continuously be mistreated. Narcissist are ones who will project Everything back on you. In that case, 🏃RUN fast.
if your man felt disrespected and you dont know why? you are in the wrong. simple as, same vice versa
shame on you
Everyone makes a mistake in saying or doing the wrong thing, men and women. That’s where forgiveness comes in place. Otherwise we would all be perfect and no one is.
Dating/Marrying a woman who can’t control her mouth when she’s angry is like dating/marrying a man who can’t control his hands when he’s angry.
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I remember seeing women around me talk horribly to their men, and I vowed never to do that to the man I would date. Men have feelings too. And we must think about how important it is to treat people the way you would want to be treated. It matters more than we think.
My neighbors wife does that and it’s horrible 💔 you can see the effects on the children
Thank you I hear these negative remarks from other women in conversations. Don’t understand why men stay.
Agree
Exactly I tell my daughters this all the time. I was married so long because of the respect and support I gave their father. I couldn’t imagine how it is to be a man, with everything they have to deal with. They are our leaders and why would you want to hurt them.
Yes! I’m 60+ yrs…We were taught this by the older women in the family early on growing up… thank you for bringing us back to the proper foundation ❤❤❤
One of the very best tapes I’ve seen. These advisements do work, for men, as for the ladys. This a tape what is very rare. – ( Just don’t let either party go over board? ) Try to come , to a commom denominator / common understanding = communictaion & asking foregiveness & giving foregiveness. It makes a huge – huge difference.
Wow, if a man wants you he will move heaven and Earth to be with you , I love it🙏 thanks so much
My husband of nearly 30 years and I enjoy a very good marriage in which humor is very important, I was just curious what would happened, so I walked into his office (at home) and yelled at him that he was pathetic and he wasn’t a man (all things I have never said to him ever) he just got a funny look on his face and asked if I wanted to see proof!!! I just burst out in uncontrollable laughter! I love that guy! 😂😂😂
1. “Men value respect: don’t disrespect. even once can have long term effect of resentment. Rise to be an elegant lady.
1. “You’re Not a man”
2. “How dare you”
3. “All men are trash”
4. “You’re not my type”
5. “There are better men out there that will like me”
6. “When are you coming…”. Wreak of a desperate woman. Love will be compelling.
7. “ I “don’t know why I’m wasting my time with you!”
8. “Be a man!” “Man up”
Watch your words carefully
Great video…worthy of many revisits
Classy Lady!
I’ve been married for 5yrs now and I have never argued with my husband, I go completely silent when he’s angry,or when he brings up a topic angrily, sometimes he may be the one at fault but I always wait for him to calm down then we talk and iron things out.
This is really working for me
No couple is perfect, and they all argue whether it is a big or small argument, but they can always get through it if they have respect and love for each other.
Emotional intelligence is key in any relationship irrespective of who they are, respect everyone including your children because that how they learn to treat others including themselves❤
Leveling up must be done equally. A successful couple admires each other’s strengths and attributes, but more importantly is allowing respect, boundaries, friendship, trust, healthy communication during difficult times, allowing space for growth and teammates throughout your journey. The work continues at every turn. Both men and women need to step up and do their part for a healthy relationship to rise and stay on top.
As a counseling psychologist, this is EXCELLENT advise on all levels. 😊