How to Always Look Pretty & Polished | Femininity & Appearance | The Feminine Universe
Looking pretty and polished every day is a lot more simple than you might think. It’s also one of the best ways to express your femininity, physically.
In six easy tips I’ll show exactly how to make sure you always look good and never get caught slipping!
We’re going to cover the four areas you should never neglect. We’ll also talk about what to look for when it comes to clothing, accessories and extras.
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can you do a video on what to wear to certain places, like going to the market to buy food, or a walk at a local park, feminine gym wear, feminine outfits for different seasons, ect ??
Love these suggestions! Definitely working on some feminine looks for more casual days.
I know. I hate that I look so blaise and unintentional… ok ok frumpy.
Yes please
Really??!! Wear what YOU want girl..not what this girl wants! Be free!!!
@@Lindamorena I love looking blaise and unintentional so freeing and relaxing
Damn this is on my timeline today. Universe telling me to kick out this depression and get back to myself 💔❤️❤️❤️
You’ve got this, babe! We’re all rooting for you. Reach out anytime 💖
Sending you strength and positive energy Sis, you’ve got this ✨
Same. Same. We got this ❤
Im in bed right now and I’m saying to my self this is a sign to stop feeling sorry for my self and put together the little peaces I have and be the it girl , positive vibes
Love that we can find people going through the same things and get support here. You ladies can do it!! 😘
Stay feminine… Study hard📚 Kudos to all the women out thr. ❣️
Great advice!
Yep 😀
me being a girly woman in stem 💗
This came at the right time as I’m going through not only a spiritual journey, but also my personal re-introduction to femininity and self love. Toxic relationships can really make you forget about yourself
Glad to hear you’re getting back to yourself, love. The spiritual, feminine, self-love combo is everything! Wishing you inner peace and healthy relationships only 😘
Right.
OMG, girl. Me, too! I finally got over my ex 10 years. Took me a year and a half to get over him. I recently cut off all my hair. I just feel like starting over. I went out last weekend with my new do. Got a lot of stares and compliments. I took some pictures and I can’t get staring at myself. I can’t believe I allowed a person to make me feel unwanted, unloved, and unpretty. That’s the first and last time that will ever happen!
Me three sis!!
Omg, I’m going through the same, I’ve been in a few toxic relationships and have been neglecting myself for so many years, now I want to look polished and well dressed, this video appeared at the right time!!🙏💖
As someone who didn’t have much of a mother influence this definitely helped me so much. Thank you.
No really like such a life saver 🥺
This really warms my heart to hear, Taylor. Women like you are such a big reason why I created this channel. While nothing can replace a mother’s influence, I want you to know you have a community here. I’m not claiming to know everything, but what I do know I will happily teach and share with you ladies – from deep inner work to fun makeup and beauty tips. Reach out any time💕
@Mocha Hantass Awww…I haven’t been here long but little things like this make me so happy that I decided to start this channel💖
Woah why did I think your pic was Keke Palmer 🙀
Yes! My mother didn’t teach me anything about being feminine or makeup or fashion. I’m slowly learning my own personal styles and quirks but I really need to learn how to bring it all together
I like this video because it wasn’t condescending by being size or style specific. It was purely informative and these are great tips!!! It’s important to know that you don’t have to become a completely different person to be considered “pretty”. You can just use tips like these to elevate your existing level of femininity
You fully grasped the intent of this video! Thanks for watching, MoNeisha💕
Work what you got! 😊 My takeaway was attention to details makes all the difference. 💜
Here is what many don’t talk about… all these tips make sense in a cohensive piece. But many of them require time to learn the skill. Learning how to do your nails, learning your skin care routine, learning how to dress yourself. I have been working on this for 2 years and still there is always another layer to add. Just remember to pace yourself!
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Absolutely! I love this!
Yes
THANK YOU for saying this. I found myself in the same boat as I was trying to write out this schedule and I couldn’t help but feel… shame? Shame that I’m 23 and I have no idea how to do my own hair yet. Shame that I haven’t kept up with shaving my legs in god knows how long. Just shame and not feeling like I’m functional or feminine. Even though I know I don’t deserve to feel that way, I can’t help but have some sense of being overwhelmed by the idea of figuring out how do even do half of these things. Your comment made me feel normal. Acceptable. A work in progress but nothing to be embarrassed by. Thank you, stranger.
Thanks for saying! I’m just starting on hair and feel so behind. Gotta learn makeup and it doesn’t come easy to me. It is a process. One step at a time. 😊
I am always so feminine & girly. My friends are always calling me extra or say I’m doing too much. However I’m just a girl & embrace my femininity. I make most of my clothes so I truly get to wear items that are at times hard to find. How lucky to be a woman. The Debarge song you wear well says “ You’re not the ordinary, anything you wear looks good on you!”
Sounds like your “friends” are jealous of you girl. Consider deleting toxic people out of your life
@@ashleyking3769 thanks doll. I have been cleaning out the clutter & it feels so good 😃
Right it sounds like you got sum haters on your shoulder girl. Continue to do u tho!
Keep doing what makes you feel good! As long as we aren’t belittling or shaming others, it’s all good. It’s better to be a little extra than be lacking. You never know who you might inspire 😉
@@TheFeminineUniverse oh its quite the contrary. The two fires I had to extinguish (one mixed the other a WW) continuously take subtle digs against me because about being tall & slim (I’m 5’7 both women under 5 ft) with different mannerisms than them. They call me Malibu Barbie, The Hamptons as ways of mocking me. Tease that I only attract certain types of men but not real men as they call the low vibration men they allow around them. I’ve had to tell one you can’t wear Gucci & let everyone have your coochie darling its not becoming 😆 I’ve accepted them in their ways but the irony is they’re uncomfortable with me in mine.
its sooo refreshing to see a POC doing these videos! ive always seen yt women do these feminine videos and i was kinda tired of it. as asian/hispanic i was always told i was too hairy or too tan by my yt friends growing up and i really believed i couldn’t be feminine. it took so many years to unlearn my internalized misogyny and embrace who i really am ❤
There’s room for everyone to shine! I’m so happy to hear you’ve been able to embrace yourself, your beauty and your femininity 💖
Girl same – I’m Mediterranean so the being dark and hairy comments my thick as legs etc always critiqued!
Ladies! The color of your skin literally makes no one less or more feminine!
And I can guarantee you, white/caucasian women also have body hair. What I envy the most is that poc women always seem to have the most luscious, thick, wavy and curly hair which looks so lively and amazing! Meanwhile I have Nordic, super straight, slippery and fine hair which always looks thin, tangled and super greasy in two days. I’d say that’s more of a goblin than a feminine look on me. 😀
Wow, that’s terrible. As an East Asian, I was never told I wasn’t feminine but more of the opposite and grew up seeing feminine Hispanic women as well. That is really shitty of people who told you that.
Go Girl! So happy for you 🙂
“Just not having to duck behind shelves” lol. This is the truest thing. It happens at the WORST times. My mother told me a long time ago, you never know who you’re going to meet in public, make sure you feel your best when you go out.
Girl! That is the truth. Thanks for sharing this, Priscilla 😊
So practical
My mom always told me, because i am short, always make sure your hair is clean and smells good lol
Absolutely!
This reminds me of my grandmother telling my sister and I as we left home for college.. “Now remember to always wear clean, beautiful, “unholey” underwear in case you faint at the store or wind up in the EMS.”👙 🚑
I guess that was her own way of saying to us to make sure we always kept tabs within our personal appearance.👗👒👠👜
Def taking notes for when my baby gal grows up
I rolled my eyes 🙄🙄when I saw this title come up on my feed.
But let me tell you something!
These tips and GOLD!! I love the first few and will definitely start incorporating some into my life!
I love that it’s practical advice!
I am the type of person that cares very little about how I look on a daily basis but I get Sunday ready or if I go out (not very often)
This video kind of snapped me back into a different mentality of why to try a little harder on looking a little more put together.
Thank you for this video 🙏🏽❤️
I loved this plot twist, Sara! 😂 So glad you could keep an open mind and find a few points that you could vibe with! We are absolutely allowed to pick and choose and use these suggestions when we want to. Nothing mandatory here, just tips! Thanks for watching, love 💕
Sara! Gurrrrrl…i hear that!! I literally was plotting out my comments and before you know it, i was sucked in! I guess i expected it to be super cheesy, but the tips are all really good, right?!
@@ShimmerBeautytheBiz So good! Not cheesy at all! And not superficial either. It was like self care advice wrapped in a pretty bow 🎀
@@sarasandoval3808 yeah, I also feel like because it’s about doing it for self and not to “catch a man” like some of the other femininity videos… looking good to look good for yourself
I swear
Here are some tips I stick to:
1. Lash tints and lifts instead of buying mascara.
2. Manicures with nude colors. It looks more expensive and is versatile.
3. Moisturize twice and wear sunscreen daily.
4. Also ladies, minimize your closet to a “capsule wardrobe.” Whenever you do this, you buy more intentionally (pieces you’re likely to love for years versus one week), defining your personal style, and not giving yourself the opportunity to look drab because those clothes are gone! To make it even easier, plan your outfits and hang them up on Sunday morning so that you save yourself the daily exhaustion of having to make those decisions day-by-day. In my wardrobe, nearly all of my tops can go with any of my bottoms, shoes, accessories, etc. This has honestly saved my life, and made looking good much easier for me.
These are such great tips, Kindre! Thanks for not being stingy and sharing with us 😊💕
Very very true,
Great tips and make so much sense, thanks for sharing.
What’s wrong with mascara?
Capsule wardrobe is so key. Having a few high quality items that you can always wear that make you feel your best. I always have my core pieces and in the back of my closet my weird fun stuff for when I’m feeling inspired. But more often than not I default to my core wardrobe.
My husband and I recently finished paying off all our debt (BYE student loans!) several months ago. When we were stricter with our budgeting, I painted my own nails, or at least made sure to have them filed and buffed. Now that we have more spending money, I’m at the nail salon getting my fill-in and pedicure every 2 weeks. Before, I had a cute pink handbag from Target that I made sure to keep clean. Now, I have a gorgeous Louis Vuitton bag that I was able to purchase by saving up. I LOVE the luxuries that I can now afford, but I still took care of myself when money was tight! Do what you can with what you have. Don’t think you have to spend money you don’t have to be polished.
As a single woman i paid off my daughters student loan, my 2 properties are mortgage free and have semi retired and sold one hse. This has come handy as i feel i have to do me now.
thank you for your comment, I’m studying now, but I decided to keep looking and feeling good even with a tied budge
@@righteous803 yes ma’am! Get it!! 👏
Exactly!! It doesn’t take a lot of money to look polished and put together… years ago I had a fabulous leather handbag that I purchased from like qvc or hsn (no interest flex pay lol) and just like you, always polished my nails and toes every Saturday.
The key with low budget is to buy quality, be consistent and learn how to properly maintenance what you already have. Using downy and woolite was essential for me when I couldn’t afford to shop as much as I do now
I love this 🥺 I’m 28 and in a weird stage, I want to feel like a pretty girl! 🙌🏽✨
I feel you! I’m going on 27 and I feel basic af 😭
Same 😌
My current situation, I’m upgrading myself these next six months.
Same here
You already are!
“One of the best things that ever happened to me is that I’m a woman.”
– Marylin Monroe
I’m trying to embrace my feminine side more after stifling it for so long. This quote helps me embrace womanhood instead of feeling ashamed of being a woman.
Marylin Monroe had many abortions and was a tormented soul. All that glitters isn’t gold
Right here with you trust me it gets better!
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now everyone can be a women including people with penis…
This!! ❤
“Stay ready so you don’t have to get ready” is legit some of the best advice I’ve ever heard. Thank you so much for this video!
It’s an oldie but a goodie! Glad it was helpful 😊
Yes I dated a guy that was impulsive and spontaneous. I never had myself together when he wanted to go out. I always had to go buy new hair , clothes, etc. I’d rather had things in order for those moments.
Today is my 26th birthday and I became a mother this year. Though men look at me, I look like a struggling mother! Last night I said to myself “This is NOT okay!” So I woke early today to put in effort and saw this video, perfect timing 💜 great advice in the comments as well.
My mother and sister used to tell me that looking pretty got you better treatment from people. It seemed unfair and I never wanted to accept it. But now I’ve experienced it. People are shallow and some will not treat you like a human being unless you look good. Happened to me at work, even though I’m smart, reliable and hardworking. So yes, sadly, this video is good advice. You get better treatment and opportunities if you look pretty or sexy.
Understand it’s not really about being “pretty” it’s about taking the time and putting thought and effort into how you present yourself to the world.
People tend to take you more seriously when you are confident and believe you’re a big deal. They treat you how you treat yourself. Everyone can’t pull off the “effortless, I woke up like this” look, most people need to put in a considerable amount of effort to not look like they just rolled out of bed from a two year coma. It’s just the reality.
This only works if you’re authentic in your style though like the video mentions, you can’t try to become someone you’re not in the process.
@@Nitra813 Bingo!
1. Have a Self Maintenance Schedule
2. Give your look a lift ( heels 2inch can make a difference
3. Dress your body type
4. Keep it simple (dresses, colors etc)
5. Don’t skip accessories & extras (eg scarf, perfumes )
6. Details will make or break you ( dirty scarf, worn out shoes or bags etc etc )
#6!!!!! So true!
Thank you ❤
Thank you😩
Thank you!
my god , thanks
My mother never taught me anything, and I had to take on the masculine role of being a provider, because she left her marriage with nothing. I had no other choice.. I am just sad and embarrassed that I don’t know how to be feminine, but I honestly had no room to focus on me. My mother and sister rely on me so much until this day.. but I will be better. I deserve it
Same am struggling how to dress i am 24 this year i felt so horrible even when people comment on how i dress😢😢😢
@@kenicemcgowan1304 we will get through it boo, I’m 25 and I’m making a way starting in 2024 🫶🏾