How To Reinvent Yourself | 10 Easy Steps | Start Today! | The Feminine Universe
This video is for the ladies who are ready for a change. If you’re tired of doing the same thing with minimal to no results, if you’re tired of being inconsistent, you have the power to change that. You have the power to reinvent yourself.
I see reinvention as a way to combine the concept of setting goals with actually transforming as a person. And That combination makes the goals and changes much more sustainable.
I’ve also come to favor reinvention because it’s not a concept that’s so tied to one specific part of the year. You can choose to reinvent yourself at any stage and any age. You can decide to reinvent yourself at any day or time that you are watching this.
Here are my top 10 tips for realistic life transformation and reinvention.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xO3TN9a8j38
I don’t make them. I’m just living hunny and enjoying my life with a purpose and being a good human ❤
I respect that!
“It is hard to get on the right path without a destination”
Glad that resonated with you!
This was definitely it for me!
Planning so ahead in future actually scares me. But I do plan the year, month, and week in my hands at the moment.
I’ve watched a few of these reinvention videos and this is my favorite! I just love the fresh perspective you bring. Love the part about being real with ourselves and how we can ruin our intuition by constantly lying to ourselves. Can you talk more about that?
I’m so glad you enjoyed it, love! I can definitely talk more about preserving our intuition, I think it’s one the most powerful thing we have as women.
@@TheFeminineUniverse please do talk about it. I’ll be expectant, thank you😘🤗
When I was setting goals for 2023 I used the Q1/Q2/Q3/Q4 system to organize it. I finish grad school in March and then I’m moving across the country at the end of June so it spilt things up nicely 🙂
Yes! Doing a quarterly breakdown makes things so much more manageable. Congratulations on graduation and all the best with your move!
love that you mentioned the importancy of God in your life💟
Such an important pillar for me! Glad that spoke to you!
Which church do you go to ? Myself am a Jehovah witness
I’m SO HAPPY you mentioned NOT everyone wants to be a “Girl Boss” or “The Boss”!!! I never wanted that, I would love to be a stay at home mom! I do have a 9-5 that I enjoy, and put my best foot forward and by no means want to be the boss. I enjoy logging off at a certain time and focusing on my family. I love the “be totally honest with yourself about what you actually want” 👏 👏 love this video per usual!!
Me tooo!!🤍
Hi. Make sure whoever you have a baby by gives you the luxury to be a SAHM. I’m a sahm as well. 💘 sending positivity your way
Thank you! It feels like everyone these days are pushing for entrepreneurship! No disrespect to entrepreneurs at all they are amazing and talented but so are people who have 9-5 jobs, or work 12 hour shifts. Like me I work 3 days a week, 12 hour shifts as a healthcare worker and it’s the best for me and my life & schedule!
@Pumpkin Latte the more you make the more you’re somewhat forced into it.. my husband starting a business because it offsets taxes. I have a business and it’s so much work!!!! It’s not for everyone and sometimes I don’t even think it’s for me. I don’t mind having a regular job ( I teach), but making my daily pay in an hour Def makes a business look attractive. Also I enjoy my business and love sharing my gifts with ppl.
Same here!!!!
✨”We can’t trust ourselves if we aren’t being honest with ourselves.”✨
I love how you ground yourself in the Word of God.👑
Being honest with ourselves has so many internal benefits!
The Word definitely keeps me grounded and at peace. Great to hear from you, Julia💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse no wonder u are filled with such wisdom!
I’ve been feeling like I need a complete life overhaul! Careers that I’ve had,old friendships that played out long ago,even my wardrobe need some serious reinvention!! You’re videos always show up just when I need them! Looking forward to seeing more content.🥂👑😄
Same!
My biggest problem is being consistent 😭😭😭, great video btw🥰
I also wanted to add that I love your idea of a quarterly check-in. I actually had heard this just a few months ago from a woman who lost her husband unexpectedly last year. She was saying that as hard as it was for her to live her life without him, she said that she is so happy that he always took the time to make sure that the family checked in with each other on a quarterly basis. She told me that every 3 months they would have a family meeting to reassess of where things were financially, emotionally, and psychologically.
She said her husband is the one that came up with all of these ideas to make sure that everything was taken care of in the family. Ever since she told me this, I made it my goal to make sure that I do the same thing with myself this year. And lo and behold, here you are saying the very thing that I had already begun.
I have plans to finish some of my remodeling projects that I did not get around to finishing last year. I did make an attempt to do those things but I make a mistake of dealing with “friends” and trying to cut a few corners to save money. But in the end, I found out that it’s best to go ahead and pay a little bit more for work that is of quality level, done on time, and where I can have a warranty and guarantee in case anything goes wrong. I don’t have time to go around here looking for Pookie and Benjo!😁
I also had some plans to look into what it would take to receive a real estate license as well as making money by of some lucrative side hustles.
This should be a very interesting year. I plan on it being fun as well.
Thanks for sharing this, Denise! That quarterly family or couple check in could make such a huge difference in so many relationships. And as you said, it’s just as important we do so with ourselves as well. Your projects and goals sound great! Keep me updated. Let’s make this year absolutely amazing! 🥂💕
As a feminine woman trying to get into Research Science (a very male dominated field) I love how you don’t advocate for a specific female role, it’s about meeting women where they’re at. I’m taking full accountability for my life and how I treat myself this year! I want to keep my softness for life.
May GOD continue to guide you as you guide us back to our true selves. I love you so much. Every video resonates with me. I am truly grateful you created this feminine channel.
I’ve been reading this book called Atomic Habits and it goes into depth about actually becoming the person you want to be instead of focusing on the bad habit you’d like to get rid of. For instance if someone asks you if you’d like a cigarette instead of saying “no thanks, I’m trying to cut back” you should try “no thanks, I don’t smoke or I’m not a smoker”. Actionable steps to actually become that person we desire to be are made up of those small changes that add up over time. I want this for all of us here. Thanks for this video ♥
I wasn’t sure if being a stay at home mom was for me since I don’t enjoy cleaning and cooking. Despite being good at work, I wanted to be home and have energy for my family. In the end, it’s been two years and I’ve found that I didn’t enjoy cooking and cleaning because I was tired when I’d get home from work. I enjoy keeping the home for my family now and I know they appreciate me being present for them.
My sister, I hope that your channel is monetized because this video could be a class! It resonates deeply with my value system and your recommendations are 100% on target. It really hit me when you said that we can suffer because we are scrolling very curated feeds – painfully illuminating!
Absolutely 💯!
“We can’t trust ourselves if we are constantly lying to ourselves”. What a gem.
I was very hesitant to watch your videos popping up in my feed. With all the foolishness people put online about femininity, it seems like people are making it something its not. I really appreciate how you are encouraging all women to be the best version of THEMSELVES. There are channels pitting groups of women against each other saying that femininity is about leaving just about all forms of work behind and depend on your husband. I love how you encourage women with all visions, including visions of careers and doing rewarding work. I stand corrected, I’m happy I clicked to watch! Thanks for being encouraging to all women & not putting anyone down in the process of sharing your tips. That is exactly why you will continue to grow!
Planning is EXTREMELY important. It sounds “anal retentive”, but it help with staying focused as well as helping to not becoming overwhelmed. That’s great that you mentioned that.
All of these are great tips. Thank you for sharing.
My mom is a wonderful woman and has been through a lot for me, but when it comes to life advices, she has had a very stressful life as a woman. These advices help me a lot to learn how to live with femininity and organization, which is sadly something my mother never learnt from her parents, and I never learned before following this channel. I love you and thank you so much ❤️