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I work as a truck driver. I notice I was getting masculine. I changed back quickly to feminine… Ooo my Lord, I don’t have to do anything but drive. The men will come do stuff for me. Hey, I absolutely just say, Thank you so much.
I wear work clothes NOT tights, stay soft spoken, and I always smell good. chile I’m having the best time of my life.😭🤣🤣
Most definitely, do these tips!❤️💚🖤
Yep. I allow men to do stuff for me.
That’s incredible I wanted to do that.
I used to work in a warehouse checking in the truck drivers and when I started embracing more feminine qualities I received the same results! Truck drivers literally falling at my feet to assist me in anything lol ❤️
Shelly’s: YAS! I’m researching driving schools now, so you sharing this is very encouraging!
Isn’t it lovely? I keep trying to teach my friend to be a receiver. She’ll get it some day lol ❤️
Topics Dr. Michelle covered.
1. Bragging about yourself
2. Arranging Dates
3. Be mindful of your mannerisms.
4. Telling your man what to do
5. Arguing, cursing, tone
6. Smiling and being positive in tough situations
7. Being Miss Independent
I need to get it together in my relationship.
Thank you 💖
Same 😳
Looooool same😭
You really don’t need to change yourself..
thank you so much 🌹
Im starting my feminine Journey after narcissistic abuse
Much love to you ❤
Me too💜good luck in your journey
Me too! We’re survivors and there is still hope for us!
likewise! sending you so much love!! xo
Good for you Queen❤
I made a feminine impression today🙈🙈. I was in a bus in Lagos, it was hot and humid, the bus wasn’t filling up and there was the man who sat next to me. He was yelling at the driver and seem really agitated. I smiled at him and calmly told him to ” calm down” . OMG, his entire demeanor change, he apologized for ” cussing in my sensitive ears” . He even paid for me, and I let him. Thank you so much Dr Michelle, discovering your channel has really changed me
I live in Lagos too. Omg e no easy o jare. Those buses are something else.😂😂
@@crissoa my sister….e be things😂😂. But even I can see the changes in me
HAHAH im lolling wowww
Nice one sis.. dr Mitchell is doing well. I am now aware of myself. The way I comport my self ‘no be here oh’ we will get there by God’s grace. The thing is, As women, we have nothing to loose resting in our femininity… 💘
That is so awesome love!
The best part about your channel is you dont get bad vibes or men hater vibes or a woman full of ego teaching other women how to live in their ego… its pure love and full of purpose
I am happy to hear that love, thank you for your kind words
Right. I much rather watch positive productive women in these videos
It’s because she’s feminine. Feminine women tend to be happier and definitely in demand by men. Especially by top quality men.
God bless you all, we need more of this and less of that gender war, how ridiculous is it to think the whole other gender is the problem?
Yes!!! I totally agree. She is so sweet and soft and enticing! It really made me want to continue watching!!
I noticed when I don’t argue with my man and I simply just look at him in shock and walk away quietly I go do my own thing and when I come back in the room he apologizes but when I argue back it blows up way too much. The latter is so exhausting. You’re absolutely right. I’m still practicing and I’m starting therapy to get past childhood traumas.
Love this, alot of black women stuggle with this one, from seing it from thier own mothers + no fathers in the house! I learnt this one along time ago from seing masculine women always arguing and scaring off the man, just not flattering at all. I do the same with boyfriend and it always ends up fine afterwards 🙂
@@CatherineCherlene I have a guy friend that I learned this with over the last year. When I stopped arguing… he would only hear himself talking, ultimately hearing how foolish he would sound. Instead or disagreeing openly, I take in his thoughts and listen. Now, he constantly finds himself asking, “you understand where I’m coming from?” because I’m no longer in constant opposition with his point of view. When I stopped arguing with him, it really allowed me to see that we are not on the same page and my initial attraction to him quickly faded. He showed me that with the right person, I wont have to be on the defense all the time too. If I state my opinion and a man feels like it’s an argument, I already know this doesn’t need to go any further than casual conversation.
@@cedricadaniels7983 wow! I literally had the exact same happen with a guy friend too. Gosh it was draining after, but yes also I stopped arguing/debating my points across because it would never stop 🙄 I realised as well maybe this ain’t the right friendship and kept my distance, now I feel more at peace 😓 and when they do pop up I’m just like 🙄 lol
Girl please, what are mother’s ?
I meant what r mother’s for?
After severe child abuse I made myself look ugly and was very masculine in order to protect myself. I am healing and trying to find the feminine side of myself. It has taken me years to feel safe enough to be a woman. I am so glad I found your videos. I am tired of being out of balance and unfeminine.
I understand completely and while our stories may not be identical- I agree with this. I think many of us make ourselves unattractive for fear we’ll be misused again. Please do continue in your path to happiness love 💕 because YOU DESERVE IT.
Im so sorry you had to been through this, it’s heart breaking..
Same story here, abused and bullied + no parental support. I have always hated looking weak because I thought it would be an opportunity for people to hurt me. And somehow I convinced myself that being feminine is weak. I’m still battling this idea today, but it’s definitely much better now. I’m wearing makeup, I take care of my hair, I select my clothes carefully, I make sure I always have some piece of jewelry on, I try to remember to ask for help even when I don’t need to, and most importantly I try to remember to smile and talk softer
Congratulations, AJ!! You are one strong, resilient, beautiful, and feminine woman!!
Similar situation of trying to heal my feminine energy after trauma. We are strong women indeed ❤️ You are absolutely beautiful and worthy of love (and so am I hehe ;D)
“You dont have to attend every argument you are invited to” oh that was a gem
I’d just like to say that judging by your picture, you are a very handsome man :). Hope that wasn’t creepy
My though as well!!!
@@taylorsanders57 Yep, he is a complete African (Nigerian) man judging by his name. And they know how to take care of a woman – I kid you not.
That’s yes for me until i receive jesus, that helps me to understand that i need to operate in my Feminine state. Thank you for sharing
just barely started watching and I like where this is going
I’m learning that it is ok to be soft … femininity requires vulnerability you have to take the risk..
That is right honey.
So True sweetie, one thing about men..they don’t want a woman that is aggressive and bitter, it really make them love you more when you carry a soft gentle spirit. 🥰💜
same! n tbh its I like being fem and vulnerable. its a relief not having to operate in this tough shell
1Pe_3:4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.
Why are we taught to put our mental health last? https://youtu.be/50654LNrf1I
“You don’t have to attend every argument you are invited to.”
Love that!
Life changing!
Yes, I had to ay that one out loud to myself. That is some of the best advise ever.
yeah so let him abuse you and beat you and cry so you never defend yourself because that’s what being female is all about!!! 🤪🤪🤪🤪💓💓💓💗💗💗💖💖🤣🤣🤣 femininity rocks!!😜😜😝😝🙀🙀🙀💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻💃🏻
Yes!! Such a word!! Because men these days really be pushing to argue with women and I take the bait everytime 😩😩
And the sad part she didn’t explain is you shouldn’t be invited to an argument. Toxic masculinity teaches women only to be the better one and most matured always.
I grew up in a tough neighborhood so from a young age, I learned to hide my femininity because displaying femininity always resulted in being harassed by older, disgusting men. I started getting cat called and followed at the age of 12. Now Im in a 20s and I still don’t wear makeup or dresses because I am afraid of the attention; however, I cannot let my past dictate my future. I want to get the courage to step into my feminine role!
yessssss!!!
Same. 100%. Makes me so so soooo angry, but the medicine is to protect self and then step into that fem energy. I am so with you on that exact background.
That’s sooo gross, sad, disgraceful and unfair! I heard that many times! 😭
I’m only 16,and I’m so glad I’m learning these things early.🙏💖💖
nooooo
@@gsjdndnndns1818 what’S wrong?
@@gsjdndnndns1818 I’m 17 and I was masculine bc I thought it would bring guys close to me and gave up my feminine energy and it made me insenre
@@brwnv3nting404 omg im 17 too and very masculine, I grew up in a home were acting feminine was condemned and laughed at. I grew up having to wear my brothers hand me downs, playing lots of sports and lots of “boyish games”. I was laughed at if I played with dolls, or wanted to watch girly films, crying was not allowed in the house. So yeah I’m tryna unlearn all that lmao and actually act womanly
be your authentic self, you dont have to fit into these ideas, be yourself
It’s funny because my ex used to constantly point out the fact that I was too masculine and not feminine enough. But when you said “feminine energy is receiving, masculine energy is doing”. This man literally had me doing everything for him and when it was time to return the favor, it was like pulling teeth. You want me to be feminine but I have to do everything for you? You want me to need you, but when I need and ask for you, you don’t come through? It doesn’t add up. Thanks for this confirmation!
Ex?
@@123pb her ex partner.
Yes. I had experienced the same thing. That’s what put me on my feminine journey. I realized I couldn’t be with a man and relax in my feminine when he couldn’t lead in his masculine. Im now dating a very masculine man and I’m still working on being more feminine. But I notice when I start falling back to my masculinity he becomes less giving and becoming more of a taker. So it’s been great practice and a learning experience.
Same happend to me, I was at a restaurant and he was telling me the same im too masculine when we were leaving the restautant I was hoping he open the door for me, never happened and I confronted him, those guys girl are boys not real men, I have learned my lessons.and im becoming and operating in my feminine energy!
Omg agreed
I feel that everyone needs to have feminine as well as masculine traits. It’s just about balance. Being a woman doesn’t mean you have to be constantly dependent on others and project yourself as this “Ms. Weak-in-need-of-constant-assistance”.
I know MANY men who find women who can take care of themselves really attractive.
It also depends on perspective. If not standing up for yourself makes me more of a woman, I would rather be less of a woman than be trampled on.
you are so right
Agreed. I need a balance tho. I don’t want to be as masculine as I am.
Yin Yang balance starts within first, then it can be shared reciprocally in relationships between partners. One is strong in areas where the other is weak. Also, one is able to step up at times when the partner is unable to step up for themselves due to life circumstances, then the other is able to receive while they work on their self-care and recalibrating their energies. There must always be a balance.
agreed. I’d rather be an elegant woman than a feminine woman. Femininity is wonderful until it is a fault, just like masculinity. There are pros and cons to both. Ive been working on a balance that reflects who I truly am.
Being feminine does not mean you can’t take care of yourself. It should mean live and let live, remaining unbothered and taking care of yourself
Many women have a mom that had masculine energy (I believe due to the stress of being a single parent). We learned those behaviors and now we have to unlearn them.
Update: find a friend or relative with feminine mannerisms and speech to see how a lady responds. That’s what helped me and prayer.
I can relate
Agreed
That’s because we had dads who didn’t do their jobs as fathers so the mothers had to step in and do both roles. Not the mothers fault.
@@biegebythesea6775 actually, it’s both parents fault.
@@MoonGoddess123 Nope, it’s the father’s fault absolutely 100%. The man’s voice is the most respected in society. Straight women are here dating MEN not women so the mother has little role in this. The father’s treatment of both is the issue here. It’s not ‘equal’ and saying ‘it’s both’ doesn’t make it more equal. We don’t live in an equal society. You can’t pretend it into existence.
I grew up with my mother being extremely feminine and it has carried over to me. I’ve Been told by one of my male coworkers I’m the epitome of ladylike. Thanks mom ❤️
could you give examples of feminine traits you have that they like?
@@user-qp6ts2dp5g I wanted to ask this too 😅 I wanna know tips
Lucky you🙈
@@LordsLittleLamb q😊
Ur blessed!!
I never realized how masculine I’ve been acting, and it feels like it’s gonna take some time and effort to rewire my brain and reconstruct my energy to be more feminine.
This is exactly how i feel
You got this, one step at a time <3
Hum. If single it seems we have to do both
That’s my EXACT sentiments….I was the “Miss Independent”… my husband told me I’m still masculine. I am trying my best to absorb what she’s saying.
What if I’ll say “I pay my own bills, because no one will.” Instead of saying “I pay my own bills.” Does it still sound masculine?
one thing i have learned as well is that you can only be truly safe in your femininity when your man is truly masculine. so ladies, don’t settle! a man that is confident (and not toxic) in his masculinity will provide you the space to truly be secure in your femininity
But you can still be a feminine woman without a man. When it’s who you are a man doesn’t determine that, if he isn’t masculine that doesn’t change you , you change him out for a real man
I noticed that my energy was attracting very selfish, weak, insecure and emotionally unavailable men. Looking back I was very hung up that I was independent, home owner, career driven, and financially stable. I wanted to show that I was a great partner, in doing that i wasnt seeing what they had to offer me. Only in the end was I disrespected or taken advantage of. While I’m proud of what I accomplished, I want to attract a partner who is a provider, who takes action, who is secure, and who makes me feel safe. I’m ready to let someone take the lead. Like many of us, I come from a long line of women who settled with partners who were poor examples of men. Women who were practically raising kids as single mothers in a marriage. I’m ready to change that.
Same here 🙏👏👏👏👏
Me too..
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Women continue to believe they only need to bring themselves to the table.
If they want to be married and remain married they should bring:
1. FAITHFULNESS
2. LOYALTY
3. MOTHERLY INSTINCT
4. CLEANLINESS
5. TENDERNESS
A woman’s titles, degrees, wealth, houses and children are all liabilities for men.