The Controlling Wife || How to STOP Being Controlling
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In today's episode we discuss the ins and outs of being a controlling wife and strategies to change. Enjoy!
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Michelle you look absolutely stunning as always.
Thank you sweetie π€
Lord let me go ahead and get my notebook out. ππ€
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I was longing for your video of the week!!!!
Awww π₯°π₯°π Finally here. Thank you for watching honey π
Good morning … this is me !
Not a wife but having a problem relinquishing control π
Well you can begin the change today babe π
I took extensive notes and was actually the next conversation I was going to have with my therapist.. thank you for your great content . The journey begins todayππΎππΎ
The joy when I see you have uploaded a new videoπ₯°πThank you so much Dr. Michelleπ
π₯°π₯° you’re so welcome sweetheart! β¨
Dr. Michelle what was the book you recommended in one of your videos? I think it was called something like the soul detox or rest? It was green.
Yes! The 40 Day Soul Fast by Cindy Trimm. An excellent transformational book π
@@drmichelledaf Yes! I was searching all over trying to remember! Thank you for responding. π
GREAT Video!!!!!!!!!!!! Deep work!!! Thank-you!!! xoxox
Thank you so much my love!π©·
Thank you sister β¦ I needed this
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Thank you for this video. It was so needed. β€
You’re welcome honey π
This video is a wow moment for me. I recently became aware of my controlling spirit and how itβs a result of my childhood trauma growing up . My opinion, words and thoughts were always shut down by my father. God is working on me being a controlling wife and mom and Iβm listening ππΎ Thank you for this video and your tips.
I know the Lord will do a great work in you. I pray for your healing. Thank you for sharing πβ¨β¨
@@drmichelledaf π
I’m learning that, especially a married woman, if a woman that is controlling in any relationship is because she does not feel safe.
I’m learning that my safety does not come from the outside but from the inside by having a personal relationship with God.
Ponder prayerfully.
If a man is controlling in a relationship what does it mean …he doesnβt feel safe ???
@lacy4035Β I would say yes.
There are a lot of marriages like this. It goes both ways, but we are not taught this in the home or, sadly, the church that glorifies marriage. Marriage is a prop by the church to make two unsaved people (those who don’t have their own security, validation self-worth in themselves through God), so they are “schemed” into a marriage that is not as holy as we think because two insecure people idolize the image of marriage to make themselves “feel” like they are worth something. “Iz married now!”
This type of marriage is not holy. It’s a co- dependency of two broken, unhealed people trying to make a whole.
We like the idea of marriage but don’t really understand what the Creator of marriage intentions truly because we never ask Him, we just go along with what “society and church” says this is what marriage is.
I could go on. However, I hope this helps.
Ponder prayerfully.
I really do believe that controlling women (me) DEFINITELY are tired of being in the drivers seat all the time! I understand the older you get, the harder it can become. one of the factors (for me) of needing control is at work. They have purposely reduced staff/ongoing recruitment freeze – keeping up to keep my well being but I know control is overrated sometimes, nowadays I always think ‘get somebody else to do it!’
Ooooβ saw this right when I was about to go off. Going to take myself for a walk and listenβ thank you!
You look gorgeous Dr Daf
I hate this trend that is going around now on social media.
” You gotta be his peace,”π
I’m learning if they ain’t got their own peace, how you expect me to be that for you.
Being in a relationship with you thinking you gotta be his peace instead of adding to his peace ( and vice versa ladies), then YOU ARE UNEQUALLY YOKED!!!!!!
But they ain’t gonna say this cause they don’t know this.
Ponder prayerfully.
I’m taking notes Dr.Daf
my my, thank you soo soo much
Can you do a video on manipulating MIL?
I know I NEED this just by the title!!! Thank you for this video!