Become a Priority | Stop Being Easy | Good Time Girl Rehab
Most women want to feel cherished, appreciated and respected when it comes to their romantic relationships. We want to feel like a priority, and a first choice. But even though this is what many of us want, there are so many women who end up in good time girl arrangements where they are not cherished and certainly not a priority.
Some women don’t realize this happening until it’s too late, some women end up trapped in the cycle of repeating the same behaviors that keep getting them the same results and others feel like once they have fallen into this category, they’ve been typecasted and there is no way out, so they continue on that path. So, to do our part to counter this phenomenon, today We’re going to get into the psychology of the good time girl a bit to figure why this happens to some women and how to stop it.
This is the second of the 5 in depth breakdowns that I promised from the 5 categories men put women into video. We’re going to explore some obvious as well as some not so obvious parts of this dynamic. Because even though the good time category is a little more straightforward there are some overlooked aspects as well as some surprising aspects. Then, of course we’re going to talk about how to get out of this dynamic. Because we’re all about solutions.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xCTFmoSPwGs
I could listen to your videos ALL DAY!! Your level of wisdom is amazing! Thank you so much for sharing it with us!
We all know someone who needs to hear this! Your ability to speak on these kinds of subjects while being both honest and empathetic is something I really admire. You tell the truth without destroying or demoralizing people, love your style ❤❤
She is amazing isn’t she?
Loooooove it🔥✨
Spot On!!!!
I feel like ive been treated like the good time girl buts its all against my own wishes. Literally. i dont try to lead with my body but I can say no to a mans sexual advances and he’d still not stop and try to push. I havent always done everything right but i tried my best to not be placed in this category and did what i could. So this has always been a frustrating topic for me, I wish guys would just choose girls who want this :/
I agree.
When someone doesn’t respect your boundaries, you have to not allow them back into your space this something I’m working on. And learning to respect my own boundaries 💕
Sounds like you tried unsuccessfully to establish boundaries, that’s why they didn’t take you seriously. Sometimes you have to prevent yourself from any type of contact with these guys, and if you find yourself in their presence, leave quickly. Good luck, you’ve got this 💯❤
Love to all my sister who were in this phase involuntary ❤❤ we are together and strong keep choosing yourself first
Come through for that PSA 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 As a woman who didn’t grow up with a mother, had a father that didn’t put her on & had to figure all of this out alone, community with other women is a MUST! We shouldn’t judge each other for what we don’t know or didn’t learn.
Same! I’m learning thank goodness.
Sisterhood is needed in this dark patriarchal world.
Exactly, we need more sisterhoods and girly groups ❤ we need each other’s empathy and support
How amazing that this video came after I blocked my FWB (successful attorney and good looking). Not saying he was a bad guy, but our relationship was so surface level that when I attempted to make it more, I realized I genuinely did not like anything about him other than the bedroom. As I’ve transitioned into this level up journey, I realize that the standard I have for men is being able to have depth, admiration, and likability (chemistry) for each other. That said, thank you for this sign that I made the right decision! Cheers to continued success and elevation my fellow feminine ladies 🥂💕
I think the “good time girl” isn’t token seriously by the man not always because she doesn’t fit some sort of standard, but sometimes purely because that man doesn’t want the commitment.
He’s a good time guy. And that is all. Ladies pay attention!
Amen to that!
4 example because something happened in his live he has to heal or because he was in a Relationship for long time and needs some space
facts 👏🏽
You are the most compassionate and caring advisor to me and other women who are on the feminine journeys♥️ I absolutely adore and appreciate your kind and thoughtful messages in every videos of yours 🙏🫶✨
I deserve to be a priority not an option ❤
Can you do a video all about going to therapy and how to get the most out of it? I think it can be such a vital part of the feminine journey ❤️
I’m so glad you’re back. I find myself looking to your channel afraid I missed an update. I was literally just thinking about being mad that I wasn’t fast back in my 20s and 30s because I’m single now…and then this video pops up. I was basically thinking I coulda had fun and probably been with someone by now. But nooooo I save my hookups and dating around just to be single. Can’t wait to watch and get some gems. in a way I’m glad you don’t post too often. Quality over quantity. Edit I should have watched this video before commenting. I was a good time girl with one person and it backfired. All of these tips I have done and I will work on it and have more compassion for myself so in turn I will meet and attract some one who respects me for me and not for the physical.
I love the PSA that you shared! We never know what anyone is going through – kindness is a free and easy choice ❤
So many women are not treated as a priority in their relationships, and it is really sad!😢 Valuing yourself and setting clear boundaries is essential with the modern man.. It’s so empowering to hear this advice and understanding we girls are worth it!❤ Remember: your *presence*, is the present for him. Just that. Definitely a game-changer for any relationship with a feminine woman and a masculine man! 🌟💖🙏
That PSA is so thoughtful. We should always lead by example and let them realize that there’s a way out. 💕💫🌸
The speed in which I ran to this video after canceling another spontaneous trip around the world with my inconsistent love interest.
I immediately block men that are raunchy. Ladies you set the tone ❤.
This comparison may be a bit random, but when you spoke about how some men may genuinely like the “good time girl” but ends up marrying someone else (most likely the “good enough girl”?) I thought about the movie Legally Blonde. Elle Woods was dumped by her boyfriend because he needed a “Jackie O” and not a “Maryln Monroe”. She was essentially put in the good time girl category because she didn’t fit his family image even though she thought they were ready for marriage.
The Option to choose, The Power to change, The right to Evolve the minute that you choose to!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
This will always be my feminine safe space because of what you said at the end. This is the one place where I truly feel the convergence of feminity, sisterhood, and glow up advice that expands beyond relationships wothout dismissing the importance of love and relationshisp. This is what I’ve been missing all my life.