How to be CONFIDENT, POISED and ELEGANT when Speaking | Conversation Mistakes to Avoid
This video analyses the deeply entrenched habits you may have developed over the years that hold you back from speaking elegantly. I discuss the techniques and the skills that you should start to develop to allow you to speak confidently and with poise.
The way we converse with others is incredibly important and is a tool that is used to judge. Whether we like it or not, people infer all sorts by the way we speak. This informative video will help you to present yourself in the best light by helping you to speak elegantly and with grace.
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Am currently building a brand ,where I talk an mentor so many young people,so this video is you actually talking to me
Thank you so much for sharing I appreciate this video
Avoid keeping your arms in your pocket,
Keep good eye contact,
You are a good example of what you actually teach💕
Yes I always shy away from speaking because I believe I don’t speak elegantly. Thankyou for making this video
1. Don’t fill silence with nervous chatter
2. Stand tall
3. Look people in the eye, don’t stare
4. Take your time
5. Don’t be a one upper
6. Show a genuine interest in the person
7. Be poised
8. Stop thinking about what the listener might be thinking
9. Use a confident voice
10. Ask purposeful questions
Thanks Aisha🙏
@@joysviolettenjini1728 u welcome
Thanks
Thank you for this!
Thank you!! You the mvp! 😘🙏🏾
*You speak so eloquently, with so much grace, but also authority, and your vocabulary is exquisitely rich.* English is not my first language. Even though I’ve been living in the UK for the last decade and I’ve written two books in English and not my mother tongue Lithuanian, I think I’ll never stop learning.
I’m always fascinated when I hear a word I don’t know.
And you gave me more than one word I had to look up in just one video. Thank you 🙂
That’s so kind of you. Thank you very much
Agreed!!!!
I love discovering new words! It is essential to look up their meaning, so that they are used properly and effectively.
Yea, she has an amazing accent
It’s ma problem as well but I believe watching this will help me improve ma self
Hello Vivienne, I think confidence makes someone fearless, strong from inside and the best thing one can ever wear. When it comes to being elegant, it is also the most essential thing to talk about. It is really important to handle every matter gracefully. Thanks for teaching us all these things. You are truly an amazing woman☺. The way you speak is really very nice and soothing, and also you are such a beautiful lady😍. Your every posture is very classy, feminine and elegant😌🥰. Again thank you for teaching us these lessons🙏🙂. We all are really grateful to you for helping us so much. ☺🥰
I always feel this confidence after watching your videos. Thank you so much.
Is so refreshing that you promote these attitude and forms, nowadays vulgarity seems to be the norm. English is not my first language, sorry if I did not expressed myself clearly.
I feel so guilty for all the mistakes I keep making while communicating. Literally every you have mentioned I have done. Thanks for this video.
“There is so much strength in humility”
“Stop thinking about what the listeners might be thinking about you”, unless you interpret minds, that’s too much waste of time.
“Don’t fill silence with nervous chatter.
“Show genuine interest in a person.👏👏🙏🏼❤️
Exactly, I think humility causes people around you to be more comfortable and become more self conscience than conscious of what you are saying. They are often busy comparing themselves to those that are comfortable with themselves and humble.
so true!! even the greatest man who ever lived, Jesus Christ showed great humility!!
In watching from Uganda 🇺🇬 I have never been confident in my life, that was because of my upbringing and the society I grew up in, I was always been looked down on, bullied and nick named but I after watching most of your videos, I’m gaining a little bit of confidence and I must do something about it because it’s still happening in my community to so many young girls!!
Wishing you the best as you embark on your journey!
Wishing you the best 🙏🏾
I’m a ugandan too, it’s true our society is really bad at lowering people down. but we can make a change
@@donamtee I’m glad someone from Uganda is having the same taste of what I really want, I’m a woman of (elegance from inside me) but after some good years, I will reveal who iam even physically, I think we can get in touch with you mr or mrs or miss .. thanks
@@teddynakayima1088 I’m also Ugandan. Born in Uganda but grew up in Southern Africa. When I moved back to Uganda in my early adult years, I was also teased and told I was too proper. That society is so toxic but I think it’s because of culture combined with poverty. I left Uganda and now at a place where I can be myself. I am very appreciated where I am.
I’m so used to talking fast and caring about what others think of things I say and how I sound. Thank you so much for the great tips. You are a powerful black queen❤
Such refreshing content. I especially liked the one on speaking eloquently. So many sound as if they just got off of the street corner.
Thanks for the video! Maybe, these peices of advices were not new for me but the more often I hear them, the more I’ll be prepared in a critical situation 😀
This video is beneficial to both ladies and gentlemen. I’ve gained so much knowledge from you, Ma’am. I sincerely appreciate you for putting this together.
Here’s another tip I use. Look at the eyebrows while speaking with people. They can’t tell you’re not looking them in the eye. It also conveys confidence because it provides the illusion that you’re looking at them in the eye.
This will help me! Thank you for the tip!
God bless you for this💓
Thank you so much
It will really help me
Thanks alot! I only started listening to you Vivian yesterday, and am so glued to your channel! Am learning alot and realising the many mistakes I have made in many different situations. Contrite this will never happen again! Thanks Vivian ❤
thanks ❤
Not only ladies, men too benefit from your incredible, intelligent content! Thanks.
You give off such a good vibe. You don’t have a fake smile, too much make up, or look uptight. In other words, you are not trying to prove something. This may seem like a strange comment but this is the first video I am finding that gives me a good impression. Your advice is well phrased, clear, and useful. Thank you!
When you have a healthy self esteem of yourself and believe in yourself you will do well in life as well as having good manners, my mom always told me manners take you through the world. I love all of the valuable information you bring to your channel. Be blessed.
I am from Croatia, and I discovered this channell only recently. I wish as well to work on myself in order to become more elegant and classy. These videos help me a lot, but my main struggle is speaking. I stammer and it seems to me that it is almost impossible to get to sound so nice…Anyone has a similar experience? Thank you